How to be a jovial human being?
BY DIVYA K NAIR
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Well, everyone of us wants to be happy throughout our life span. Isn’t it? In fact, no one wants to lead a unhappy life even though it seems quite impossible. From birth to death, every life events of each human being is different in all aspects right from the size and shape of body parts to our possessions we acquire is entirely different.
Here, let’s speak about some secrets to be a happiest person ever.
1. Be yourself, never try to satisfy anyone else than yourself.
What is the necessity of being ourselves?is it really a necessity? Have you ever thought or lived with a mask as we are wearing no to cover our face from the epidemic.Being ourselves is something difficult now a days because all of us are trying to satisfy someone else, it can be your boss at office,or it may be your tutor at your college,or it may be your relatives who is very eager about others matters.Think for a while is it really bothers you?? Answer must be , Never!! because its your life do you are liable to satisfy only you not others.So, be yourself.
“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”
- Mahatma Gandhi
2. Think positive : take things lightly, do not complicate
If you are able to be positive towards everything in and around then you are really fortunate to be.Attitude matters everywhere. The depth of emotions and feelings are purely attitude based. If you are viewing a picture through a yellow spectacles, then the picture you saw will have a yellow shade, similarly, if you approach a person or a situation with a clear mind rather than a turbulent one, definitely you will be able to overcome it smoothly than ever, so attitude matters,try to be positive thinker always and be proactive.
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3. Not to complain anyone for your unhappiness, entertain instead of it.
Take a while, to think on your past. Well, I know past is past, we must not over think it, still just think about those events which happened in your lifetime for a 60 seconds. What all things came to your mind within this short duration of time? What comes majority? Unhappy moments or happy moments? If majority is unhappy then what is making you unhappy? Learn to find what is makes you unhappy. It could be your job that you do not like, or it could be a person whom you really do not like… see the situations are different but all affects the same thing, your mind. So never complain any person or situation for your unhappiness, its all lies in your approach towards it.
4. Be a game changer;spread positiveness
Just imagine, if some one who is close to your heart is expressing a sincere gratitude on a positive change they got in their life because your words and support or your presence.How it feel for you? Really good no? That’s the point, you must have the courage to change what you can, at the same time must have the wisdom not to change those you cannot. If you could share your happiness with the person next to you, and if he could pass it to his neighbour and if it continues as a series,its well said that “ something is shared is something doubled.”
Jovial means, cheerful and friendly; a jovial personality is someone who smiles from the bottom of their heart no matter what they are going through. They possess the quality to spread their happiness to others even through a single smile. Seems, good isn’t it? Yeah! If you want to be happy make some one else happy.
And the question is, are you a jovial being , the question seems irrelevant isn’t it?
hmm…well,by then are you ready to transform yourself to a jovial personality ??
